Preparations to actually remove/replace `BaseDendrite`.
Quite a few changes:
- SyncAPI accepts an `fulltext.Indexer` interface (fulltext is removed
from `BaseDendrite`)
- Caches are removed from `BaseDendrite`
- Introduces a `Router` struct (likely to change)
- also fixes#2903
- Introduces a `sqlutil.ConnectionManager`, which should remove
`base.DatabaseConnection` later on
- probably more
* Initial federation sender -> federation API refactoring
* Move base into own package, avoids import cycle
* Fix build errors
* Fix tests
* Add signing key server tables
* Try to fold signing key server into federation API
* Fix dendritejs builds
* Update embedded interfaces
* Fix panic, fix lint error
* Update configs, docker
* Rename some things
* Reuse same keyring on the implementing side
* Fix federation tests, `NewBaseDendrite` can accept freeform options
* Fix build
* Update create_db, configs
* Name tables back
* Don't rename federationsender consumer for now