This makes the following changes:
- Adds two new metrics observing the usage of the `DeviceListUpdater`
workers
- Makes the number of workers configurable
- Adds a 30s timeout for DB requests when receiving a device list update
over federation
Preparations to actually remove/replace `BaseDendrite`.
Quite a few changes:
- SyncAPI accepts an `fulltext.Indexer` interface (fulltext is removed
from `BaseDendrite`)
- Caches are removed from `BaseDendrite`
- Introduces a `Router` struct (likely to change)
- also fixes#2903
- Introduces a `sqlutil.ConnectionManager`, which should remove
`base.DatabaseConnection` later on
- probably more
This removes most of the code used for polylith/API mode.
This removes the `/api` internal endpoints entirely.
Binary size change roughly 5%:
```
51437560 Feb 13 10:15 dendrite-monolith-server # old
48759008 Feb 13 10:15 dendrite-monolith-server # new
```