This is a refactor of the federation destination queues.
It fixes a few things, namely:
- actually retry outgoing events with backoff behaviour
- obtain enough events from the database to fill messages as much as
possible
- minimize the amount of running goroutines
- use pure timers for backoff
- don't restart queue unless necessary
- close the background task when backing off
- increase max edus in a transaction to match the spec
- cleanup timers more aggresively to reduce memory usage
- add jitter to backoff timers to reduce resource spikes
- add a bunch of tests (with real and fake databases) to ensure
everything is working
* Initial federation sender -> federation API refactoring
* Move base into own package, avoids import cycle
* Fix build errors
* Fix tests
* Add signing key server tables
* Try to fold signing key server into federation API
* Fix dendritejs builds
* Update embedded interfaces
* Fix panic, fix lint error
* Update configs, docker
* Rename some things
* Reuse same keyring on the implementing side
* Fix federation tests, `NewBaseDendrite` can accept freeform options
* Fix build
* Update create_db, configs
* Name tables back
* Don't rename federationsender consumer for now
