diff --git a/cmd/tulip/serve.go b/cmd/tulip/serve.go
index 84045a7..213ea45 100644
--- a/cmd/tulip/serve.go
+++ b/cmd/tulip/serve.go
@@ -91,7 +91,8 @@ func normalLoad(startUp startUpConfig, wd string) {
 
 	exit_reload.ExitReload("Tulip", func() {}, func() {
 		// stop http server
-		srv.Close()
+		_ = srv.Close()
+		_ = db.Close()
 	})
 }
 
@@ -112,6 +113,7 @@ func checkDbHasUser(db *database.DB) error {
 	if err != nil {
 		return fmt.Errorf("failed to start transaction: %w", err)
 	}
+	defer tx.Rollback()
 	if err := tx.HasUser(); err != nil {
 		if errors.Is(err, sql.ErrNoRows) {
 			err := tx.InsertUser("Admin", "admin", "admin", "admin@localhost")
diff --git a/database/db-types.go b/database/db-types.go
index 4ed05b3..e80e73a 100644
--- a/database/db-types.go
+++ b/database/db-types.go
@@ -2,6 +2,7 @@ package database
 
 import (
 	"database/sql"
+	"fmt"
 	"github.com/MrMelon54/pronouns"
 	"github.com/google/uuid"
 	"golang.org/x/text/language"
@@ -36,7 +37,8 @@ type UserPatch struct {
 	Locale    language.Tag
 }
 
-func (u *UserPatch) ParseFromForm(v url.Values) (err error) {
+func (u *UserPatch) ParseFromForm(v url.Values) (safeErrs []error) {
+	var err error
 	u.Name = v.Get("name")
 	u.Picture = v.Get("picture")
 	u.Website = v.Get("website")
@@ -45,16 +47,16 @@ func (u *UserPatch) ParseFromForm(v url.Values) (err error) {
 	} else {
 		u.Pronouns, err = pronouns.FindPronoun(v.Get("pronouns"))
 		if err != nil {
-			return err
+			safeErrs = append(safeErrs, fmt.Errorf("invalid pronoun selected"))
 		}
 	}
-	if v.Has("reset_birthdate") {
+	if v.Has("reset_birthdate") || v.Get("birthdate") == "" {
 		u.Birthdate = sql.NullTime{}
 	} else {
 		u.Birthdate = sql.NullTime{Valid: true}
 		u.Birthdate.Time, err = time.Parse(time.DateOnly, v.Get("birthdate"))
 		if err != nil {
-			return err
+			safeErrs = append(safeErrs, fmt.Errorf("invalid time selected"))
 		}
 	}
 	if v.Has("reset_zoneinfo") {
@@ -62,7 +64,7 @@ func (u *UserPatch) ParseFromForm(v url.Values) (err error) {
 	} else {
 		u.ZoneInfo, err = time.LoadLocation(v.Get("zoneinfo"))
 		if err != nil {
-			return err
+			safeErrs = append(safeErrs, fmt.Errorf("invalid timezone selected"))
 		}
 	}
 	if v.Has("reset_locale") {
@@ -70,8 +72,8 @@ func (u *UserPatch) ParseFromForm(v url.Values) (err error) {
 	} else {
 		u.Locale, err = language.Parse(v.Get("locale"))
 		if err != nil {
-			return err
+			safeErrs = append(safeErrs, fmt.Errorf("invalid language selected"))
 		}
 	}
-	return nil
+	return
 }
diff --git a/database/db.go b/database/db.go
index daf2c62..0e38862 100644
--- a/database/db.go
+++ b/database/db.go
@@ -35,3 +35,7 @@ func (d *DB) BeginCtx(ctx context.Context) (*Tx, error) {
 	}
 	return &Tx{begin}, err
 }
+
+func (d *DB) Close() error {
+	return d.db.Close()
+}
diff --git a/pages/edit.go.html b/pages/edit.go.html
index cc01ec4..31bace3 100644
--- a/pages/edit.go.html
+++ b/pages/edit.go.html
@@ -22,16 +22,16 @@
             </div>
             <div>
                 <label for="field_website">Website</label>
-                <input type="text" name="website" id="field_website" value="{{.User.Picture}}">
+                <input type="text" name="website" id="field_website" value="{{.User.Website}}">
             </div>
             <div>
                 <label for="field_pronouns">Pronouns</label>
                 <select name="pronouns" id="field_pronouns">
-                    <option value="they/them" selected>They/Them</option>
-                    <option value="he/him">He/Him</option>
-                    <option value="she/her">She/Her</option>
-                    <option value="it/its">It/Its</option>
-                    <option value="one/one's">One/One's</option>
+                    <option value="they/them" {{if eq "they/them" .FieldPronoun}}selected{{end}}>They/Them</option>
+                    <option value="he/him" {{if eq "he/him" .FieldPronoun}}selected{{end}}>He/Him</option>
+                    <option value="she/her" {{if eq "she/her" .FieldPronoun}}selected{{end}}>She/Her</option>
+                    <option value="it/its" {{if eq "it/its" .FieldPronoun}}selected{{end}}>It/Its</option>
+                    <option value="one/one's" {{if eq "one/one's" .FieldPronoun}}selected{{end}}>One/One's</option>
                 </select>
                 <label>Reset? <input type="checkbox" name="reset_pronouns"></label>
             </div>
@@ -58,7 +58,7 @@
                         <option value="{{.Value}}">{{.Label}}</option>
                     {{end}}
                 </datalist>
-                <label>Reset? <input type="checkbox" name="reset_zoneinfo"></label>
+                <label>Reset? <input type="checkbox" name="reset_locale"></label>
             </div>
             <button type="submit">Edit</button>
         </form>
diff --git a/server/server.go b/server/server.go
index c101b8e..19d01b8 100644
--- a/server/server.go
+++ b/server/server.go
@@ -234,6 +234,7 @@ func NewHttpServer(listen, domain string, db *database.DB, privKey []byte, clien
 		if err := pages.RenderPageTemplate(rw, "edit", map[string]any{
 			"User":         user,
 			"Nonce":        lNonce,
+			"FieldPronoun": user.Pronouns.String(),
 			"ListZoneInfo": lists.ListZoneInfo(),
 			"ListLocale":   lists.ListLocale(),
 		}); err != nil {
@@ -243,13 +244,22 @@ func NewHttpServer(listen, domain string, db *database.DB, privKey []byte, clien
 	r.POST("/edit", hs.RequireAuthentication("403 Forbidden", http.StatusForbidden, func(rw http.ResponseWriter, req *http.Request, params httprouter.Params, auth UserAuth) {
 		if req.ParseForm() != nil {
 			rw.WriteHeader(http.StatusBadRequest)
+			_, _ = rw.Write([]byte("400 Bad Request\n"))
 			return
 		}
 
 		var patch database.UserPatch
-		err := patch.ParseFromForm(req.Form)
-		if err != nil {
+		errs := patch.ParseFromForm(req.Form)
+		if len(errs) > 0 {
 			rw.WriteHeader(http.StatusBadRequest)
+			_, _ = fmt.Fprintln(rw, "<!DOCTYPE html>\n<html>\n<body>")
+			_, _ = fmt.Fprintln(rw, "<p>400 Bad Request: Failed to parse form data, press the back button in your browser, check your inputs and try again.</p>")
+			_, _ = fmt.Fprintln(rw, "<ul>")
+			for _, i := range errs {
+				_, _ = fmt.Fprintf(rw, "  <li>%s</li>\n", i)
+			}
+			_, _ = fmt.Fprintln(rw, "</ul>")
+			_, _ = fmt.Fprintln(rw, "</body>\n</html>")
 			return
 		}
 		if hs.DbTx(rw, func(tx *database.Tx) error {
@@ -260,7 +270,7 @@ func NewHttpServer(listen, domain string, db *database.DB, privKey []byte, clien
 		}) {
 			return
 		}
-		http.Redirect(rw, req, "/", http.StatusFound)
+		http.Redirect(rw, req, "/edit", http.StatusFound)
 	}))
 	r.GET("/userinfo", func(rw http.ResponseWriter, req *http.Request, params httprouter.Params) {
 		token, err := oauthSrv.ValidationBearerToken(req)